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Everlane editor heels in black, as shown on a model's feet.

A Review of Everlane’s New Kitten Heel, the Editor Heel

If you’ve been following my blog, then you know I haven’t had much success with Everlane shoes because they run too narrow for my wide-ish feet. (This is especially true of the Street Shoe.) So, I was thrilled to hear about the new Editor Heel, which Everlane says runs big. I just happen to be in the market for a smart pointy toe kitten heel.

This shoe is handcrafted out of Italian suede, features a walkable 2″ heel, and a tab on the back for a sporty touch. They’re made in Lastra a Signa, Italy in the same factory that makes the Everlane’s boots and Form Sandals. It retails for $155 and comes in four shades. I especially love the green, but being practical, I ordered the black.

Product photo of the Everlane Editor Heel as seen from the side. This one is green. It has a small kitten heel.

Editor Heel – $155

I always order two sizes, and the shoes took about a week to arrive via USPS. They were very carefully packed. Each shoe had stuffing and came individually bagged. A layer of tissue separated each shoe and buffered the ends of the box.

View of shoe box with shoes carefully wrapped inside of them.

First impression? Hello handsome! I don’t care much for the tab on the back, but overall I think it’s a polished-looking shoe.

A pair of black heels on a red fabric surface.

The shoe reveals a bit of toe cleavage. I love the square cut across the top.

Black heels with a pointed toe, as viewed from above by the person who is wearing them. An Everlane shoe box is on the floor.

Upon inspection, it seems decently well made, though there was some wrinkling in the interior lining of the shoe. For the exterior, Everlane recommends treating the shoe with a suede protector to keep it clean.

Closeup of a pair of black pointed toe heels. There is some wrinkling on the inside of one shoe.

Close up of the interior wrinkling

The synthetic sole is hard and sleek. A rubber sole or partial rubber sole would make it less slippery.

A hand holding heels to show the bottom soles. There is a sticker on the bottom of each shoe that says, "what is this? your shoe is protected by this sticker"

I ordered my usual size and a half size up. The half size up was definitely too big, so I’d say it runs true to size. Fit wise, the width of the shoe seemed a tad snug but OK for the widest part of my foot. It wasn’t too narrow like my experience with other Everlane shoes.

View of some black heels worn by someone, as seen from the floor. This is a side view of the shoes.

Editor Heel – $155

However, my toes were all cramped up in that pointy toe. The footbed doesn’t have much in the way of cushioning either. Taking them on a test walk in my home, I felt lots of pressure on the balls of my feet. Not comfortable! As much as I love the look of these pumps, there’s no way I’m keeping them.

Alas, I won’t be out walking the dog in these heels like Angelina.


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Simple Human adjustable shower caddy with two shelves and a soap dish.

Is This simplehuman Shower Caddy Worth the Money?

Today’s review is about a boring, but important household organizing item: the shower caddy. For many years, I bought inexpensive wire shower caddies. But after a year or so, they’d get rusty and gross and I’d throw them out. What a waste!

They also never stayed in place; they’d fall forward. I was always pushing them back up against the shower wall — and thump, they’d fall forward again. So I did some research and decided to spend a little more money on a higher-quality product. Here’s what I got — the simplehuman Adjustable Shower Caddy — and how it’s fared after a year.

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Product photo of a Simple Human shower caddy as shown on a shower head. There are some bottles with no labels on it, and a green bar of soap.

This shower caddy is made from stainless steel, anodized aluminum, and plastic and is supposedly corrosion-resistant. It has two wire baskets that are adjustable in nearly all directions. You can slide them up and down and also left and right. You can also adjust the placement of the partitions on each shelf. I love that it’s so accommodating!

The two baskets have more than enough room for two people’s stuff (at least for the two people in my household.) It also has hooks on the side, which you can hang two razors from, as well as a notch below the soap dish to hang something. The soap dish has drainage and is removable, too. Holes on each shelf mean that you can turn bottles upside down to get that last bit of shampoo:

An upside down bottle on a Simple Human adjustable shower caddy. There's a hole in the shelf for the bottle cap to go through, allowing you to place the bottle upside down.

Best of all, this caddy stays in place. It has a rubberized clamp which requires screwing into place. This is a little awkward and time-consuming to install. (Note: if you have a thicker shower head or one that angles as soon as it comes out of the wall, it may not fit.) The caddy also has suction cups. After you’ve installed it, it doesn’t move — at all.

After a year of use my caddy looks to be in good shape. There were some rusty-looking spots on the baskets, but I cleaned most of it off with some soap, water, and a scrubby sponge. However, I noticed little bits of clear plastic being generated while I was scrubbing. Might this be a protective coating on the shelves? I’m a little nervous that the shelves will be prone to rusting now. I guess I’ll find out soon enough if this is the case.

The Simple Human shower caddy, which has two shelves, attached to a shower with pink tile. There is a bar of soap and a bottle and razor on it.

One other problem was that the back of one shelf had broken at the corner. Doh. But it hasn’t affected its functionality. That shelf has been able to hold lots of bottles just fine.

Corner of the Simple Human adjustable shower caddy, which has broken.

Retailing for about $40, this shower caddy is at least three times as expensive as other caddies I’ve bought, but I suspect it will last three times as long, probably even longer. It has a 5-year warranty against defects (so I guess I could send in my caddy for the broken shelf corner). The bigger price tag has been more than worth it for the fact that the shelves are adjustable and that it stays in place. I also like to think that I’m being less wasteful by using something that will hopefully last longer. You can also purchase parts from Simple Human (like the soap dish, hooks, or a basket) instead of replacing the entire thing.

Overall I’m quite pleased with this shower caddy. The design feels thoughtful. It’s sturdy and works well. There’s also a larger version of this caddy if you need more storage. I never thought I’d feel fondly towards a shower caddy, but I do! Many retailers carry simplehuman, including Amazon, AllModern, and The Container Store. I got mine from Target.

UPDATE 11/14/17 – I contacted simplehuman about the broken basket corner and they are sending me a replacement basket as part of their warranty. Gotta love good customer service!

UPDATE 3/19/26 – It is more than eight years since I first wrote this review and I’m still using this shower caddy. The shelves have gotten slightly rusty, but not in a way where I feel like I have to replace them just yet. I even moved this shower caddy across the country. Needless to say, I recommend it!

Everlane High Rise Skinny Jeans, as worn by a model.

I Tried Everlane’s High-Rise Skinny Jeans

In September, Everlane started selling jeans, which makes a lot of sense for a brand known for basics. It’s a wardrobe staple that a lot of us can’t live without. But it took them two years to source a factory because they wanted an environmentally-friendly one.

You see, denim production (and textiles in general) is a dirty, dirty business. Many fabric dyes contain nasty chemicals like cadmium, mercury, and lead, according to this article from Time, which looked at how Xintang, China, the “Jeans Capital of the World,” suffers from polluted waterways. And if it’s not the water that’s polluted, it’s the air.

Everlane says the factory they found to produce its jeans is one of the most sustainable. According to this story, the Vietnam-based, LEED-certified factory is nearly half-powered by alternative energy and recycles 98% of its water. I was astounded to learn that making a single pair of jeans can take 1,500 liters of water! But this factory uses a closed water system which only loses .4 liters of water per pair of jeans. It even mixes the denim’s byproducts with concrete to create bricks, which are used to build homes in the area. I agree with the tags on these jeans, which read “denim to feel good about.” Everlane’s jeans are priced at $68, which seems reasonable (and comparable to the price point at Levi’s).

Shelves in an Everlane store with heels and stacks of jeans.

The women’s jeans come in three cuts — mid-rise skinny, high-rise skinny, and modern boyfriend — and in two lengths: regular and ankle length. (Fellow petites, rejoice!) Right now, they offer four washes: mid blue, dark indigo, black, and white.

As you might have noticed from my previous posts, I’m all about the high-rise cut, so that’s what I tried. Here’s what they look like on a model:

A white model wears high-rise skinny jeans with heels.

And here’s how they look like on me. I’m wearing the black high-rise skinny in ankle length.

Two images, one of the front, and one from the side, of a person from the waist down, trying on a pair of black skinny jeans in a fitting room.

The inseam on these is 26.5″ and the length was perfect for me. I’m 5′ 4″ for reference. (The inseam on the regular length is 28.5″.) They are indeed high rise — they go up to the navel. I’m wearing my usual denim size, which I found a bit tight. They were fine to stand around in, however, they were too constricting when I sat down. (I call this the sit test, and I hate fitting rooms that don’t have chairs or stools for me to conduct this test.)

I tried the same size in the indigo wash, and while they were not quite as tight as the black pair, they were still too tight for sitting comfort. So then I went one size up in the indigo. Bingo! They’re still nicely skinny, but more comfortable.

Two images, one of the front, and one from the side, of a person from the waist down, trying on a pair of indigo skinny jeans.

Overall, I found the fit to be fantastic — they don’t gap at the waist, bunch weirdly across the front, or flatten my behind. Of course, how they fit on different people will be different. (A friend tried them on too and they didn’t fit her well in the derrière). But for me, I think these might be the best fitting skinny high-rise jeans I’ve ever tried.

They’re not the skinniest skinny jeans — they have a bit of room in the leg — but I kinda like that about them. It gives them a bit of a vintage feel. The denim is 98% cotton and 2% elastane, but it doesn’t really have much stretch. It’s a stiff Japanese denim that seems of good quality.

Let’s take a moment to compare to other brands. Uniqlo’s jeans cost $40. In the high-rise department, they have this high-rise slim cut, this high-rise cigarette cut, and even a pair made with their HEATTECH fabric for the winter. Their jeans are a medium weight and are stretchier than Everlane’s, molding to your legs. I have an earlier iteration of their high-rise jeans and find them quite comfortable.

I’ve also tried Madewell’s high-rise skinny jeans, which start at $128 and go up to $158 for an embellished pair (though you can bring in an old pair of jeans to recycle for $20 off). These jeans are stiffer than Uniqlo’s, but not as stiff as Everlane’s. The leg is skinnier than Everlane’s. However, one thing that I dislike about Madewell’s jeans are that the front pockets are shallow. You could probably put your keys in there, but not a phone.

On the high end of the spectrum, I’ve tried 7 For All Mankind’s $200 high waist ankle skinny — the stretchiest and skinniest of all (they are skin tight), but these also have shallow pockets.

Since I already own a few pair of Uniqlo jeans right now, I’m holding off on buying Everlane’s. While I don’t know the specifics of manufacturing for these other brands, I bet that none of them come close to Everlane in terms of sustainability and ethical production. As soon as my other jeans wear out — or as soon as Everlane come out with another wash I could use (how about olive green or dark gray?) — I’m going to get me some environmentally-minded, ethically-made denim!

UPDATE 12/30/17 – Well, after resisting for a few months I caved and ordered a pair of high-rise skinny jeans in the dark indigo, so here’s my update after wearing them for about two weeks. I ordered the ankle length one size up from my usual size. They’re snug at first but loosen up as you wear them.

A person wearing the Everlane high-rise skinny jeans, standing in front of a brick wall painted white.

Everlane High-Rise Skinny Jeans // Uniqlo shirt // Carine Roitfeld x Uniqlo jacket // AGL Flats // Everlane Tote [review]

Because the denim is a bit stiff, it doesn’t mold to the legs. Perhaps from the way it hangs off the body, folds appeared, particularly around the knees. I’m not sure how the Everlane model wore them without hardly any wrinkly folds, though I take comfort in the fact that they wrinkle a bit even on Jennifer Lawrence.

A person wearing the Everlane high-rise skinny jeans and an olive jacket, from the side.

If you’re going for a super skinny leg look or want to tuck your jeans into knee-high boots, these are not for you. While the leg is skinny, it’s not that skinny.

A person wearing the Everlane high-rise skinny jeans, from the back. The back of the leg is wrinkly.

After I washed and air dried them, they tightened up as if they were new. But with wear, they loosened up again.

A person wearing the Everlane high-rise skinny jeans with a dotted shirt and olive jacket. They have dark hair and are standing in front of a white wall outside.

While I find them comfortable, now that I’ve had them for a few weeks, I’ve concluded that they’re not the best-fitting jeans ever for me. (Uniqlo wins on that front.) I also wish the stiffer Japanese denim didn’t generate quite so many folds. However, the jeans do seem well made. The looser leg shape lends a casual, more relaxed look, something different from my other jeans. I plan to keep them.

UPDATE 2/10/18 – Alright, I’ve worn these for about two months now. Even though I was disappointed after the first two weeks because of the folds, I find the waist fits well and I’ve been getting a lot of wear out of these jeans because I find them comfortable. I really like the shade of the dark wash as well. They pretty much go with everything.

Because I’m a dork — and for shits and giggles — I mimicked the Everlane stock photo to see how the jeans compare on a regular person. Not surprisingly, they are wrinklier on me than on the model. Also, while creating this pose I realized that you have to raise your arms to keep them out of the frame. Yet you can see a bit of hand at the model’s waistband, which I guess is possible, but a weird way to hold your arm. In any case, modeling seems awkward.

Comparison of Everlane high-rise skinny jeans on a model, and on me mimicing the same mid-stride pose.


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Everlane Reviews: A rack of clothing at Everlane. There is a shelf on top of the clothes rack, on which sits leather bags.

All My Everlane Reviews

All my Everlane reviews in one post — organized by category and by item, alphabetically. Whenever I write a new review, I’ll add the link here.

Accessories

Bags

Coats & Jackets

Dresses & Jumpsuits

Men’s Apparel

Pants, Jeans, & Shorts

Shoes

Sweaters

Sweats

Tees & Tops

Sales (Picks and Reviews)

Uniqlo Beauty Light Bras on hangers in a store display.

Is this $20 Wireless Bra from Uniqlo Too Good to be True?

As you may know from my post about ThirdLove, I’m on the search for the perfect bra. The $68 ThirdLove Classic T-shirt Bra, while comfortable, ultimately didn’t work because the straps kept falling down. So why not take a look at the other end of the spectrum and check out this Uniqlo Beauty Light Wireless Bra, priced at just $19.90?

Uniqlo claims this bra will support you even though it’s wireless because it has a wide band. It has seamless construction and soft urethane resin under the cups to provide support. Intrigued, I visited my local Uniqlo and found all the red bras in the clearance section. They must have been discontinuing that color. I bought one for just $9.90.

Uniqlo size chart which reads, 3 reasons to choose a Beauty Light Wireless Bra" and "Find Your Perfect Size". XS is 20-32" band size, and approximate cup size of 30B & 32A, S is 34-36" band and 34A 34B 36A, M is 34-36" band size 34C 34D 36B, and L is 36-38" band size and 36D 38C.

The sizing chart above wasn’t posted at the store, but it would have been handy. Just looking at this chart, my bra size is not listed. Hmmm. Not a good sign. If we go by my band size, I’d be an XS, but the cup was too small for comfort, so I sized up to S.

The back of a red Uniqlo Beauty Light Wireless Bra.

The inside cup of a red Uniqlo Beauty Light Bra.

The bra was comfortable in that it felt supportive but not constrictive. True to its name, it was quite light. As a underwire-wearer, I was surprised. But the cup sizing wasn’t great, as you would expect from something that only has sizing in small, medium, large etc. Not long into my wear, the straps fell down. I continued to wear the bra for weeks in the name of review bloggery and the straps just got worse. They fell down way more often than the ThirdLove bra. The little slider on the bra strap that you use to adjust the length of the strap is almost worthless. You can adjust it all you want, but it will come loose. Super fail.

By the way, don’t confuse this bra with Uniqlo’s Beauty Soft Wireless Bra, which has no hooks. That one is a slip-on bra. I detest slip-on bras, so I didn’t try it. But just thought I’d mention it in case that’s something you like. What is up with Uniqlo and their confusing way of naming things the same or almost the same name (like they did with the pants in this post)?!

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UPDATE 12/10/17 – I’m trying to be better about making ethical shopping choices, so I’m updating posts with info about where and how things were made. This bra is made out of synthetic fibers, which is not great for the environment, as they’re not biodegradable and their microfibers pollute our oceans. (But then again, what bra isn’t made out of synthetic fibers?) I don’t have info on where this was made, but Uniqlo says it’s putting better processes in place after it was cited for abusive practices in 2016, so it does appear to be making an effort.

UPDATE 4/13/17 – I’m still on a quest for the perfect everyday bra. See all my bra reviews.

UPDATE 7/21/17 – I actually found a bra that I like — and it’s reasonably priced!

A woman wearing a short sleeve shirt and navy jogger points.

Finally! Jogger Pants for Petites

I love the look of joggers for those more casual days, but because I’m petite, they often end up being regular length on me. (That was the case with these Uniqlo joggers I reviewed earlier.) So, I kept my eye out for a pair of jogger pants than would work for my frame, and Ann Taylor delivered.

A product photo of black jogger pants on a model just their lower half is shown.

These jogger pants come in regular and petite lengths and in three colors: navy, black, and olive green. The petite ones are online only. I ordered two sizes and found them to be true to size. My usual size ended up fitting best. I’m wearing the petite in navy here.

The joggers have an elastic waist, two front off-seam pockets, and back patch pockets. They sit at your natural waist and drape nicely. The regular length has a 26″ inseam and the petite has a 24″ inseam. The petite ones hit me just right, length wise. (I’m 5′ 4″). You can scrunch up the pants on your legs because there’s elastic on the leg opening. The elastic is a wee bit tight, but not uncomfortable for me. I imagine they wouldn’t work for someone with bigger calves. They’re made out of polyester; the fabric is lightweight and smooth to the touch.

The back of someone wearing jogger pants and flats.

They’re priced at $79, though Ann Taylor often runs promotions, so you can snag them on sale. Though they’re a casual pants, the material is nice enough that you can dress them up with heels. I think they could even be work appropriate, depending on how you styled them (with say a button down and a blazer). I’ve been wearing them a lot since I got them and find them comfortable. They seem like they would travel well too as the material doesn’t seem to wrinkle much. Hmmm, do I need to get these in another color?

Because I keep it real on this blog, here’s some photos of me wearing these joggers out and about while shopping at the Asian grocery store. Yup, that’s a cup from In-N-Out in my hand. And yes, that means these photos were taken soon after I ate a cheeseburger and fries.

A person walking down the aisle of a Korean grocery store, pushing a shopping cart.

UPDATE 12/1017 – I’m trying to be better about making ethical shopping choices, so I’m updating posts with info about where and how things were made. These pants are made out of polyester which is not great for the environment because they’re petroleum-based and not biodegradable. They were made in the Philippines. Ann Taylor doesn’t disclose its supply chain information, so we don’t know about its factory conditions.

A shoe rack with three tiers, capable of holding about 9 pairs of shoes, with 6 pairs of shoes on it.

The Best Shoe Rack for Your Money

Well, I love to write about shoes on here, so we should talk about how to keep them organized. What’s the best shoe rack that’s reasonably priced and well made? For many years, I used a simple white stacking shelf from Target as my shoe rack because at $13.99, the price was right.

However, this shelf was not ideal. First, it requires some effort to assemble. The stacking mechanism isn’t great with a flimsy connection at best. And because it’s made out of composite wood, it’s heavy. Moving several of these is a pain. Another annoyance: white plastic caps try to mask the screws on the sides but they’re always falling off.

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My Shoe Rack Search

I wanted to upgrade to something sturdier, easier to put together, and more attractive. But getting something like the shoe rack below from West Elm is laughable. Though it’s lovely (and pricey), it’s not practical at all — unless you own only three pairs of shoes. That definitely is not me.

So I went in search of a new shoe rack. My requirements:

  • easy to assemble
  • strong yet lightweight
  • stackable
  • sturdy
  • moderately priced
  • not ugly

The Winner: Seville Classics 3-Tier Utility Shoe Rack

After researching many options, here’s what I ended up with — tada! Here’s the best shoe organizer for your money.

A three-tier slatted shoe rack

Seville Classics Shoe Rack – $29.99. Update: In 2024, they are now 49.99 or 79.99 for two.

This is the Seville Classics 3-Tier Resin Slat Utility Shoe Rack and it met all my requirements. It has an iron frame, which means it’s strong. I wouldn’t say it’s lightweight, but it’s not heavy. I can pick up the whole thing with nine pairs of shoes on it no problem.

The shoe rack arrives flat and assembles easily. No tools required! Just unfold the frame, and then snap the shelves in place. (This means that it will also be easy to move because you can transport it flat).

The shelves are roomy — there’s 5 3/4″ between each shelf. I could fit 3-inch heels on them (but I have a small shoe size: 6.5-7). If you need more space, such as for boots, you can leave out a shelf like this:

A slatted rack with a shelf at the bottom and the top.

The shelves of the Seville Classic shoe rack are removable so that you can configure them how you like.

It comes with connector pins if you want to stack them. I stacked three of them vertically and they’re not wobbly at all. You can also adjust the feet, as they are screwed on, to level the shelf.

A tall shelf with nine shelves holding shoes, three pairs per shelf.

Three of the Seville Classic shoe racks stacked together.

Aesthetics & Durability

Is it the most attractive shoe rack in the world? No. But it’s handsome enough. It has a clean, neutral style, which means that it can fit in with a lot of decor. There’s also a mesh shelf version, but I think the slatted shelves are more attractive (and easier to dust).

Each three-shelf unit is $29.99. You can get it from Seville Classics, Amazon, and other retailers. I added a hook to the side to hang a shoe horn. (Both are from Daiso, the Japanese dollar store. The hook attaches via an adjustable gripper and I have no idea what it’s called or where you can get one too, but you can also use a magnet hook.)

So far, I’m very pleased with this shoe rack. It’s well made and sturdy. Plus, I love that you can configure it in different ways. That means it can adapt to different spaces. I also put two of these in my closet for clothes storage. I stack my jeans on them. I’ve recommended this shoe rack to friends, and now I recommend it to you!

UPDATE 3/30/24 – I just want to mention that I moved across the country with these racks, and as I surmised, they were easy to move. I took all the shelves out and folded up the frames. The movers taped the sets of shelves together, which meant I had to clean off sticky tape residue. But that aside, they survived just fine and I was able to reassemble them into configurations that work for my new space.

A calendar that says "this week" with a sharpie pen on top of it and a camera nearby.

5 Month Wedding Timeline & To Do List

Today I’m sharing my wedding to do list so that you can see the details of planning a wedding and when we did them. This is a month-by-month list of our tasks and deadlines.

Let me first give you some context about our wedding, though. Because I work in a creative field, I already knew some of the vendors I wanted to hire (such as the photographer, makeup artist, and day of coordinator). If you don’t have people in mind already, you’ll likely need to do some of the things on this list sooner than I did.

For example, I didn’t have a trial with my makeup artist until three months out, but I knew her work already and was confident she was right for me. If you decide to hire a makeup artist but don’t have someone in mind, you should start earlier with makeup trials to ensure that the artist is someone you want to work with. Also, I wore a fairly simple lace dress (which I snagged on sale online). If you want a particular designer gown or a custom suit or other custom garment, you’ll need more time to go through fittings.

This timeline is meant to help you think about the tasks you might need to undertake, but as I wrote in my first post about weddings, prioritize what’s important to you. The items on this list are specific to what we wanted to have, but hey, you may not want a makeup artist or a rehearsal dinner. You do you!

White flowers in the foreground, and champagne glasses gathered below.

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Five Months Out

  • Book venue & pay security deposit (But honestly, I recommend starting earlier on this. In a lot of cities, you might have to book your venue a year in advance, especially if you want a certain date. We didn’t have a particular date in mind, and we also didn’t mind getting married on a Friday, which meant we had more options available. It was cheaper as well.)
  • Finalize guest list
  • Send Save the Date email (We made a little video.)
  • Book photographer
  • Book makeup artist
  • Contact catering and choose items for tasting

Four Months Out

  • Block hotel rooms
  • Create wedding website
  • Start composing day of timeline
  • Attend catering tasting
  • Research printing vendors (If you want physical invitations)
  • Book graphic designer to create invitations (If needed — there are also plenty of templates)
  • Start wedding outfit search

Three Months Out

  • Finalize wedding website
  • Print and send invitations
  • Meet with makeup artist for trial
  • Finalize menu selections with caterer
  • Obtain liability insurance
  • Pay balance to venue
  • Book bartending service (Our venue required licensed bartenders.)
  • Book photo booth (If you want one)
  • Ask someone to be our officiant
  • Make accommodation plan for families
  • Research wedding rings

Two Months Out

  • Send RSVP reminder to guests via email
  • Put deposit down on catering
  • Book day of coordinator (BTW, you don’t need someone who specializes in weddings for this. Someone who coordinates other types of events can do this.)
  • Book linens/glassware rental
  • Book entertainment/activity (For us, we asked musician friends to play. This was followed by karaoke. You might have to do this the month before, depending on what your entertainment is. We just had to rent a karaoke machine)
  • Buy decorations
  • Finalize day of timeline & send to vendors
  • Buy rings
  • Finalize day after wedding location (We had a brunch the next day for guests, but you may not even want to do this.)

One Month Out

  • Send final reminders to anyone who has not RSVPed
  • Calculate final guest count
  • Remind guests about hotel booking deadline
  • Send vendors list, guest count, timeline, & floor plan to venue
  • Get alterations, if any, for clothing (If you have complicated alterations, you may want to do this earlier)
  • Buy plates & utensils (We decided not to rent plates & cutlery and purchased compostable ones.)
  • Buy photo booth props
  • Buy favors (We ended up making ours a DIY activity, which was a big hit with kids and adults alike.)
  • Discuss photo shots & locations with photographer
  • Map out ceremony with officiant
  • Make invite list for rehearsal dinner & invite guests
  • Make reservation for rehearsal dinner
  • Get hair cut (Depending on how early you like to get your hair cut and how short you wear it. I personally like three weeks out for my hairstyle. My partner, who has much shorter hair, went the week of the wedding.)

Two Weeks Out

  • Obtain marriage license
  • Meet with catering to go over final details
  • Meet with day of coordinator
  • Send final guest count to catering, bartending, and linens rental
  • Check on rings for resizing
  • Decide what volunteer tasks are needed and ask friends
  • Email guests with reminders & details
  • Send schedules to families & friends who are involved in ceremony, set up, or tear down
  • Finalize AV needs for ceremony, musicians, & karaoke
  • Make list of who is bringing what on the day of

1 Weeks Out & The Week Of

  • Order flowers from Trader Joe’s
  • Reconfirm arrival times with all vendors
  • Pick up rings after resizing
  • Write vows
  • Get a facial & manicure
  • Pick up flowers & assemble
  • Assemble bridal bouquet
  • Finalize ceremony with officiant
  • Order lunch for pick up for day of wedding

After the Wedding

  • Pay any vendors who still need to be paid
  • Follow up email to guests (With thank yous, link to photo booth photos, lost & found list.)
  • Receive deposit back from venue
  • Write thank you notes

First photo: Jazmin Quaynor/Unsplash

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Everlane Modern Point Flats shown worn on feet.

I Really Wanted to Love Everlane’s Modern Point Flat

Everlane debuted their Modern Point shoe a few years ago, but Nordstrom is currently carrying Everlane in its Pop-In@Nordstrom shop through November 12, so I thought it would be a good time to review them.

These flats are like a classic loafer, but with the twist of a slim pointy toe. They have a three-quarter inch stacked heel. Sleek and chic, they seem like the perfect pair of flats for an office. They say, Hello, I am industriously working. Unless you are sitting on the floor like this:

A white model sits on the floor, wearing a striped shirt, skinny jeans, and one leg bent over the other to shoe her cognac suede pointed loafers.

Priced at $155, the Modern Point comes in eight colorways (some of them two toned), and in a regular leather version and a suede version. Made in Brescia, Italy, the regular leather ones are smooth on the sides but feature textured pebbled leather on top. They’re constructed out of all Italian leather and seem well made, if a bit stiff. The suede ones are a bit softer.

A produce photo of a loafer with a pointed toe, as seen from the side.

Modern Point – $155

I visited the Everlane Fit Lab in San Francisco to try these shoes on. The Fit Lab carries a small number of products. (I was told it was about 15% of their total offerings.) Shoes were scattered about, but only as display items. Luckily for me, I have a common shoe size and was able to find a display shoe in my size.

A hand holding up a pair of pointy-toe loafers inside a store.

Before I continue with this review, let me share some caveats about me and my feet to give you context. My feet are flat, a little bit wide, and they are very, very picky. I have a hard time finding shoes that feel comfortable. Everlane shoes run narrow in my experience, so that’s already a strike against them for me. This shoe is no exception; Everlane advises ordering the Modern Point in a half size up. (Though if you have narrow feet, I’d order your normal size.)

I’m usually a 6.5 and tried on a 7. The width of the 7s actually worked for me for the most part, though they did pinch in the toes. But they didn’t feel as narrow to me as the Everlane Street Shoe (review here). The bigger problem was that I kept slipping out of the heel, which was surprising because many people have complained in reviews that the heel felt narrow to them.

Shoe, as seen from above worn on someone's foot, who is also standing in front of a mirror, so there is an image of the feet in the mirror.

Slipping out of a shoe at the heel is not an uncommon problem for me — and usually it’s an easy fix with a heel grip. But I have to say: these flats didn’t seem very comfortable. The synthetic sole is stiff and the interior lacks padding. The soles don’t flex much when you walk and there didn’t seem to be much shock absorption; I could really feel how hard the ground was. I just got the feeling that my feet would fatigue quickly in them.

Many people report that these shoes need a break-in period and that the leather softens over time. While that may be true, it doesn’t seem like the footbed would change that much since it isn’t made with much cushioning to begin with. Another drawback is that the soles are slippery. If you do get these, be sure to add some anti-skid pads to the soles for grip.

People seem to love the Modern Point (they get good reviews overall on the Everlane site), so perhaps it’s just me and my difficult feet. I do love the look of them and am bummed they don’t work for me. They’re practical and stylish.

If they had fit comfortably, I could imagine getting a lot of wear out of them. I wish Everlane made these with more cushioning. If that were the case, I might have given them a chance to see if they would stretch in the toes with repeated wears. I’m curious to hear from others who have worn this shoe for awhile if they become more comfortable over time.

Design & Shopping Guide: Copenhagen

I spent five days in Copenhagen in August, but already I want to go back! This is a city that impressively blends old architecture with new. Beautiful, clean design is everywhere. Also impressive: about half of the population commutes by bike — and they do so stylishly. People bike in their suits or skirts and heels, which is not a sight I ever see in San Francisco. Getting around by bike is one of the joys of Copenhagen and I recommend renting a bike for at least one day if you’re up for it. Today I’m sharing a few places that I saw during my visit.

Design & Architecture

Canal Tour
Yes, it’s touristy, but so what? It’s a great way to see the city and its wonderful buildings and architectural gems, like the Cirkelbroen (circle bridge), a bike and pedestrian bridge designed by Olafur Eliasson.

Sights along the canal, including the Cirkelbroen.

Rundetaarn
This 17th century tower was commissioned by King Christian IV for stargazing. There’s no stairs (except at the very, very top), just a wide spiral pathway, which was originally build to accommodate horses hauling astrological equipment. Along the way up, you can stop by various points of interests, like the gallery space or an ancient toilet. After making your way to the top, you’re rewarded with a lovely view of the city.

View from the top of the Rundetaarn.

Christianborg Slot
Once a royal residence, Christianborg palace is now home to the Danish Parliament and the site of official events. Tour the gilded royal reception rooms and the kitchen.

One of the many rooms in Christianborg Slot.

The Royal Library (aka the Black Diamond)
The Royal Library is the national library of Denmark and the university library of the University of Copenhagen. It’s among the largest libraries in the world. In 1999, a new addition designed by Schmidt Hammer Lassen Architects opened. It’s known as the Black Diamond for its shiny, black, faceted exterior, facing the water. It’s quite nice from the inside too. I just wandered around, but if you time it right, you can see a talk or an exhibit in its gallery.

Inside the Black Diamond.

Designmuseum Danmark
If you, like me, love design, spend a few hours at this museum. My favorite exhibit is the Danish chair exhibit, where chairs are set off in cubicles in the wall, as if they were framed.

Just a few of the chairs in the chair exhibit at Designmuseum Danmark

Shopping

Illums Bolighus
I lost hours of my life in this department store, blissfully looking at everything. There are floors of Scandinavian furniture, housewares, decor, lighting, women’s clothing, men’s clothing, kids stuff.

Hay Design

If you love minimalist design, then a stop to Hay House is a must for its furniture and decor.

Fleamarkets

If you’re visiting in the spring or summer, don’t miss out on Copenhagen’s many flea markets. I stopped by the Frederiksberg Loppetorv, which is known for its clothing, though there was plenty of other treasure as well. I scored an awesome crystal-covered panther necklace. Here’s a list of flea markets on Flea Markets Insiders.

Loppenhylder

If you don’t get your fill at the Frederiksberg market, just down the street is Loppenhylder. Its shelves are stocked with retro and flea market-esque goodies and some furniture as well. I wanted to take home a chest of drawers. Alas, they don’t ship.

Vintage Shops
Copenhagen is a great city for vintage shopping. The Nørrebro neighborhood has many vintage shops and Ravnsborggade is one street known for antiques and vintage finds. It’s also the site of a flea market on Sundays.


Pelechecoco
Along with the old is the new — sort of. Pelechecoco is a sustainable brand that makes leather jackets of every color from recycled leather.

Before I left on my trip, I bought two guidebooks. The Lonely Planet Pocket book is handy for learning the lay of the land. But I especially love the Citix60 guide, as it’s full of recommendations from local creatives.