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Does Uniqlo Fit Differently in the U.S. vs. Japan?

This is a post I’ve been meaning to write ever since I returned from a trip to Japan in December 2022. Now it’s more than a year later. Better late than never! If you, like me, have ever wondered if Uniqlo fits differently in the U.S. compared to Japan, I now have an answer from first-hand experience: yes, at least for some items.

A note about Uniqlo: This blog is about striving to shop more ethically, but I occasionally write about Uniqlo. While it’s a fast fashion brand, it’s making improvements. Good on You gives Uniqlo a middle-of-the-road mark, noting that its labor rating has gone up from “Not Good Enough” to “It’s a Start.” However, it’s unclear if they provide a living wage to factory workers.

Personally, I’m working on consuming less in the first place and using items for as long as possible. But sometimes I do buy fast fashion (for reasons I go to in this post). And Uniqlo is one brand that works for me in terms of fit and price.

Uniqlo Sizing Differences in Different Countries

So, back to the fit info. Uniqlo says that their sizing differs from market to market. For example, what would be a size S in Japan would be sold as a size XS in Europe. But in my experience, there’s another difference.

Two of the same gray tweed jackets on a black and white rug

The same Uniqlo jacket from America on the left and Japan on the right. The American one had a size tag on it at the collar while the Japanese one didn’t.

Last fall, the Mister bought a wool-blend tweed jacket from a Uniqlo here in New York. When we traveled to Japan, he saw the same jacket, tried it on for the heck of it, and discovered that it actually seemed to look better. So he bought it.

Even though they were marked as the same size, he swore the Japanese one fit better.

Let this be a lesson to us all: a sleeve at the right length makes all the difference!

When we got home, we compared both jackets. The measurements were very similar, if not the same. But there was one clear exception: the sleeves, which were a little shorter on the Japanese version. The U.S. jacket measured a quarter of an inch longer in the sleeve (measured from shoulder seam to end of sleeve) than the Japanese one.

Let this be a lesson to us all: a sleeve at the right length makes all the difference! Even a quarter of an inch difference was noticeable. The whole jacket seemed to fit him better even though it was really this one area, the sleeve, that had a clear difference when measured.

The same man wears a gray tweed jacket in two images. The sleeves on the rigth image are shorter.

These Uniqlo jackets are the same size, but bought in different locations. To the left: the one from NYC. On the right: the one from Tokyo. The Japanese one has slightly shorter sleeves. Also wearing Everlane jeans [review].

We also discovered that the sleeves of button-up shirts were shorter at Uniqlo Japan. This was an exciting discovery as sleeves on shirts sold in America are often too long for him, even at Uniqlo USA. Needless to say, he bought several shirts too.

But Some Items Are Probably the Same

Now, I don’t know that this is true of every item. I bought a down coat (pictured in this post about what I packed for our three-week trip). The fit feels similar to coats I’ve tried on in Uniqlo USA. But since I didn’t do an exact item-to-item comparison, it’s hard to say whether the women’s clothing are different too. (I don’t know why I didn’t think to also try on some button-up shirts since sleeves being too long is also a problem for me.)

But the shirts and jacket the Mister brought home are proof of subtle differences among different countries. Uniqlo sizing differences exist! So even if you think you’ve seen it all at Uniqlo in the U.S., it’s still worth checking out Uniqlo in Japan in case something fits different, particularly if you’re considered petite or short-limbed in America.

By the way, some of the bigger Uniqlos in Japan have fun extras in them like flower shops, coffee stands, and local T-shirt designs. And in some locations you can even get suits ordered to your measurements (though it will take at least a week for them to make it). That was cool to see.

A woman in a purple coat holding an umbrella looks at the flowerstand outside of a uniqlo store

The Uniqlo in Ginza, Tokyo

 

Three sweaters on wooden hangers.

Fitting Room Review: Sweaters & a Slip Skirt from Everlane

To be honest, Everlane has cooled on me these last few years. They seem to have gotten trendier over the years. But hey, if I’m passing by I’ll pop in out of curiosity. The last time I visited was in November. I tried on a few things, mostly sweaters.

Now that I’m finally getting around to posting fitting room photos, half of these items are already on clearance! But I thought I’d share photos just in case you’re looking to see how these things fit on a short non-model — especially for those items that are final sale. For reference, I’m 5’4″. I generally wear a small in most brands (though these days I sometimes wear a medium).

The Good Merino Cardigan

A light skinned model wears a cappuccino colored cardigan with a pocket on it.

Good Merino Wool Cardigan – $51-55 on final sale (originally $138)

Above: a 5’8″ model in M. Below: 5’4″ me in a S.

A person with black hair takes a selfie in a fitting room mirror wearing a two-toned cappuccino colored cardigan with a pocket on it.

Good Merino Wool Cardigan – $55 for this color

Details: This boxy wool cardigan has a shape that’s very Everlane: oversized and cropped. But the details I find baffling. Two of the colors, like the one I’m wearing above, come in a two-tone color blocking. All have raised seams down the sleeves. Some even have visible contrast stitching there. I don’t really love any of these design elements. Maybe I’m boring, but I just want a solid color (or a pattern all over) in a cardigan.

Sizing & Fit: A bit oversized and wide, but it’s true to size. Your normal size will yield a slightly loose fit.

Petite Friendly? Yes. I like that it’s short in the body.

Materials: Everlane calls this “Good Wool” because it has certifications indicating good animal welfare. It’s a medium thickness and seems warm, but feels a tad scratchy. Reviewers on the Everlane site also complained that it pilled immediately.

Where It’s Made: Hong Kong

The Alpaca Oversized Cardigan

A white model wears a long brown cardigan.

Oversized Alpaca Cardigan – $178 (Fuchsia and cafe cream on sale for $71)

Above: A 5′11″ model wears size M. Below: 5’4″ me in XS.

A person with black hair takes selfie in a fitting room wearing a long brown cardigan.

Oversized Alpaca Cardigan – I’m not sure if I’m wearing the same color as the model above as the tag didn’t list the color. But there’s only one brown for this cardigan on the website, so maybe?

Details: A long cardigan featuring a rib stitch in the body and a chunky rib at the button placket. There’s also a version that comes with pockets.

Sizing & Fit: Oversized. I sized down in the photo above.

Petite Friendly? Meh. For me, I find the length kind of awkward. It seems to cuts me in half.

Materials: 60% alpaca, 30% nylon (21% recycled), 10% merino wool. It feels very much like the Everlane’s other alpaca offerings like their Alpaca Crew (review here), which is to say it’s light, airy, and warm. For a sweater so light, it’s surprisingly warm. But I find it itchy on my sensitive skin. Though Everlane claims this cardigan is pill-resistant, reviewers complain it pills easily.

Where It’s Made: A 700-person factory in Dongguan, China

The Cloud Oversized Turtleneck

Above: A 5’11” model wears size M. Below: I wear an XS.

A person with black hair takes a selfie in a fitting room mirror wearing a white turtleneck sweater

Cloud Oversized Turtleneck – In which it’s hard to show you the turtleneck part because I have to hold the phone in front of my face for a mirror selfie.

Details: A big sweater with a rounded shape, dropped shoulders, and a wider sleeve with a slight taper. There’s ribbing at the sleeves, hem, and the turtleneck. Even though I generally don’t wear turtlenecks, this was my favorite sweater out of the three I tried. It seemed the most classic while having a chic shape.

Sizing & Fit: True to its name, it’s oversized. Boxy fit. I sized down.

Petite Friendly? The body length on the XS above is 22″, which works for my petite frame. But the sleeves are way long on this one, longer than even other Everlane sweaters.

Materials: Everlane says it’s made out of their Cloud Yarn, a lightweight yet chunky yarn that’s 42% merino wool, 31% cotton, 27% alpaca. It has a nice medium feel to it.

Where It’s Made: The same factory in Dongguan, China as the alpaca cardigan above

The Hammered Satin Slip Skirt

A black model wears a top and skirt in the same black and white print

Hammered Satin Slip Skirt – $29-$59 on final sale (originally $98)

Above: A 5’10” model wears a size 2. I’m 5’4″ and wearing a 6.

A person with dark hair takes a selfie in a fitting room mirror wearing a black and white slip skirt

Hammered Satin Slip Skirt – $59 for the black moonsplatter print

Details: The slip skirt is one ’90s comeback I’m OK with. This one comes in a satin fabric with partial lining and a size zip. However, there is this seam that goes across at about a third of the way down because of a yoke panel at the top. It’s well hidden in the print above, but I think it might look a little funny in a solid color? (It also comes in yellow, fuchsia, and black)

Sizing & Fit: True to size. I felt that the skirt hangs and flows nicely.

Petite Friendly? Well, it’s supposed to be midi length, but it’s a maxi on me!

A hand holds out the fabric of a stain material with a black and white print

A closeup of the viscose fabric

Materials: FSC-certified viscose. Viscose is basically wood pulp. In this case, the supplier has a designation that says they’re at low risk of using ancient and endangered forests. The material is thin (as I would expect in a slip skirt) and has a subtle hammered texture and slight sheen to it, which lends it an elegant feel.

Where It’s Made: Nanchong, China


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A person with dark hair stands in front of a brick wall wearing an oversized cardigan that is buttoned over skinny jeans.

Quince Review: Mongolian Cashmere Fisherman Cropped Cardigan

An oversized cocoon cardigan has been on my wish list for a while. After thinking about it for two years, I finally gave in and ordered the Mongolian Cashmere Fisherman Cropped Cardigan Sweater from Quince. I’m using it as my cozy work-from-home sweater. Here’s my review after wearing it for two months.

Fabric: Much like the crewneck version of this sweater (reviewed here), the knit is 7-gauge. It’s a medium weight, not bulky, and even feels light considering how much sweater there is. See this unboxing Reel I made for a closer look at the knit.

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An oatmeal-colored oversized V-neck cardigan.

Mongolian Cashmere Fisherman Cropped Cardigan Sweater – $119.90. It’s wide! This is the oatmeal. It comes in three other colors.

Itchy Factor: My skin is on the sensitive side, but this sweater doesn’t bother me. I wear it over T-shirts, so there’s still a layer between me and the sweater. But where it’s in direct contact with my skin (such as my arms) it doesn’t itch me.

Details: It has a gentle V-neck and fisherman rib detailing. Though it’s called cropped, it’s not that cropped. But it’s cropped in comparison to the boyfriend version of this sweater, which covers your bum. While the buttons look the same on most of the colors, the black comes with black buttons. (I appreciate this attention to detail.) This cardigan looks similar to the $445 Jenni Kayne cropped cashmere cardigan, but costs a quarter of the price.

Where It’s Made: China. Quince says they only partner with factories that pay fair wages and produce goods in a sustainable way.

A person with dark hair stands in front of a brick wall wearing an oversized cardigan that is open over skinny jeans.

I opted for skinny jeans to balance out the oversized fit of the cardigan. It’s been so overcast here lately, so this is what the sweater looks like on a cloudy day.

Fit: Oversized! And boxy. I’m a S in most brands, including Quince, but given how big this looked, I sized down to XS. That was the right call. Even at a size down, it’s still oversized and quite wide across. The XS measures 25″ across from pit to pit. It’s 23″ lengthwise, so it’s wider than it is long.

Petite Friendly? Well, I often have to fold up the sleeves, but that’s nothing new when it comes to sweaters and my short limbs. I’m wary of sweaters that are too long and kind of cut me in half. This skims the top of my hips, which I think works okay, proportion wise.

How It Wore: Quince claims that “fine yarns mean less pilling.” But I found the opposite to be true of this cardigan. It pills quite a bit! Mine has pilled along the arms, which is typical for me (all that movement, I guess), as well as on the lower two-thirds of the body. Here’s how it looks after two months of wear:

Closeup of fabric of a cardigan. There is some pilling.

The Quince cardigan’s condition after two months.

To be honest, the pilling looks worse in real life. Of course all sweaters are going to pill some. That’s just what they do. But compared to sweaters from other brands that I own, this sweater started pilling faster. And it continues to pill. It definitely needs regular de-pilling maintenance. (And Quince has just the thing for it too in this $10 cashmere comb, which I think I’ll add in my next order.)

Final Thoughts: The rapid pilling makes me worry about the quality — and how raggedy it might look over time. But I can’t deny what an everyday staple this cardigan has become. It’s cozy, easy to throw on, and nicely toasty. There’s a lot to like (including the price), even if it’s not perfect.


If you’re interested in trying Quince, here’s my referral code, which will take $20 off your first order of $200 or more. This will also generate credits for me, so thank you!

White dishes in a dishwasher's bottom rack

Switching to a More Eco-Friendly Dishwasher Detergent

Photo: Nathan Dumlao/Unsplash

One exciting aspect of moving into my current apartment is the presence of a dishwasher who isn’t me. Now that I have this magic machine, I can’t imagine going back to washing everything by hand.

The Problem with Pods

Without thinking too much about it, I used Seventh Generation dishwashing pods. I assumed they’d be fine because the company touts plant-based ingredients. (UPDATE: Silly me. It turns out the brand is owned by Unilever.)

But then I read about how those pod encasements may not break down completely. What the heck are they made out of anyway? The film containing the detergent is made out of polyvinyl alcohol, also known as PVA or PVOH. PVA is a synthetic plastic polymer that’s water-soluble and biodegradable. It’s supposed to break down into non-toxic components.

However, a study from Arizona State University found that as much as 75% of PVA from detergent pods pass through conventional water plants untreated, making their way into our waterways and soil. Oh noooo.

A study found that as much as 75% of PVA from detergent pods pass through conventional water plants untreated, making their way into our waterways and soil.

The study was partly funded by Blueland, which makes environmentally-friendlier cleaning products, including their own dishwasher tablets. (UPDATE: I reviewed the Blueland tabs over here.) Blueland is petitioning the Environmental Protection Agency to remove PVA from its Safer Choice and Safer Chemical Ingredients lists until tests prove PVA is safe.

I’m always a little skeptical when a brand helps pay for a study. But also, I’m glad this study exists and is bringing attention to this potential problem. (The study authors, for their part, say that funders had no role in the design of their study or the interpretation of data.)

In any case, why chance it? If pods are questionable and might be contributing to plastic pollution, then I’ll use something else. I did some reading, starting with Going Zero Waste’s post about dishwashing detergent (though it includes pods on its list, including the very 7th Generation pods I’d decided to stop using).

At first I looked for another pod option. But then I realized that I was being seduced by their convenience. I could just stop being lazy and use some old fashioned powder detergent (which takes all of 3 seconds more to use). After scanning ingredients and reading reviews, I decided to try Ecover Dishwasher Powder.

Ingredients

Going Zero Waste compiled a list of ingredients to avoid. These include:

  • fragrance
  • dyes
  • phosphates
  • sodium hypochlorite
  • polyacrylates (acrylic acid, 2-ethylhexyl acrylate, methacrylic acid)
  • benzisothiazolinone
  • methylsothiazolinone

Ecover says their dishwasher detergent is phosphate-free, biodegradable, and fish friendly. I looked for it in the Environmental Working Group‘s (EWG) cleaning products database. There, I found a different Ecover dishwasher detergent with a B rating. But the exact one that I bought was not on there.

So then I looked up each ingredient on the label. (EWG’s website is kind of hard to use. I tend to go to this page and search by ingredient or product.) What’s listed below is each ingredient on the label followed by the grade given by EWG.

Ingredients: sodium sulfate (A), sodium carbonate (A), sodium citrate (A), sodium chloride (A), sodium carbonate peroxide (A), sodium silicate (B), magnesium sulfate (A), sodium polyitaconate (C), alcohol alkoxylate (D), sodium metasilicate (F), amylase enzyme blend (B), subtilisin enzyme blend (B), fragrance (D), limonen (C)

Hmmm, there are some ingredients with bad ratings. Alcohol alkoxylate, sodium metasilicate, and fragrance are all concerning for respiratory issues. Other concerns among these ingredients include developmental and reproductive toxicity and skin allergies.

However, those concerning ingredients come further down the list. Because of the Cleaning Products Labeling Act of 2017, ingredients must be listed in descending order of weight. So if it’s further down the list there’s not as much of it. Given that most of the ingredients received an A or B rating, perhaps this product would also receive a B rating if EWG were to analyze it?

How Does Ecover Dishwashing Powder Perform?

So far, so good! My dishes come out squeaky clean. (I use the air-dry setting instead of heat-dry, by the way, which is more energy efficient.) I haven’t seen any residue or film. And while the fragrance is apparent when you’re dispensing the powder, the clean dishes themselves do not have any smells.

In fact, I think it cleans better than the pods I was using before. The detergent comes in a simple cardboard box. No plastic. And the price is right too. A 48 ounce box is just $6.29 at Vitacost at the time of this writing. (You can find it on Amazon too, but the price is almost three times as much and I’m trying to avoid Amazon where I can.) There’s also a fragrance-free version. All in all, I’m happy I made the switch.

UPDATE 9/7/24 – A friend of mine uses and likes Biokleen automatic dishwasher powder, which receives a B rating from EWG. One drawback is that it comes in a plastic container. Also, read this ProPublica investigation into the production of chemicals used in America’s most popular cleaning products (like Cascade), that are polluting our air and elevating cancer risks.

UPDATE 11/30/25 – Ecover is hard to find these days! It hasn’t been available at Vitacost for months. I’m not the only one who has noticed. See this Reddit post from four months ago where some people report that they contacted the company, and it said it’s evaluating its offerings for the U.S. market.

I also saw on Ecover’s website that they now make a dishwasher tablet without any wrappers, however, they don’t ship outside of the UK. The Biokleen powder I mentioned above has also vanished. Alas, I’ll be on the search again for another detergent. Some options include Nellie’s, Common Good, and Dirty Labs, which all cost significantly more. There’s also Seventh Generation (the powder, not pods), which is similar in price to Ecover, though they are owned by a corporation with questionable ethics.


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A black sleeveless garment on a hanger

8 Tips for Shopping Secondhand Clothes Online

When it comes to shopping for clothes, my first goal is to shop less. But if I do look for something, I try to look for secondhand first.

I prefer shopping secondhand in person so that I can take a closer look at the condition of a garment. But this can be difficult if you’re trying to fill a specific wardrobe gap. Say you’re looking for a shimmery pleated midi skirt. Or perhaps, a certain cut of jeans from your favorite brand. Finding that specific piece in a brick-and-mortar thrift store or consignment shop requires some patience. You’ll likely find a bigger inventory online.

I’ve had my share of online shopping failures (but also many successes). So here are a few things I learned from personal experience when it comes to shopping for secondhand clothing online.

1. Go for familiar brands. Because many secondhand online retailers don’t allow returns, I tend to stick to brands that I know well. (The exception is when a vintage piece catches my eye.) Often, I’m looking for something I already own, but in a different color. Or maybe I tried something on in the store first and then decided to search for it later. I’m not much of a risk taker when it comes to secondhand shopping online because I’m trying to avoid a scenario where something doesn’t work out.

The good news is that many brands now offer their own secondhand shops, like Eileen Fisher’s Renew (which allows returns). Even small indie brands like Curator SF have a secondhand section, often operated by a third party like Treet, where individuals can list their pre-loved items for sale.

2. Ask for measurements. If they aren’t listed, ask! Compare them to something you already own that fits well. Even if the measurements match, you might strike out. But chances are much better if they match.

I make it a habit to ask questions when I’m interested in an item to see how quickly or thoroughly the seller responds.

3. Ask the seller a question, any question. On platforms where there are individual sellers (eBay, Poshmark, Mercari, etc), interact with the seller. I made the mistake of buying something on Poshmark once that never shipped. The seller either disappeared or was not active. Now I make it a habit to ask questions when I’m interested in an item to see how quickly or thoroughly the seller responds.

4. Check the feedback. Of course, look at the seller feedback as well. You can get a sense of how much they’ve sold, how quickly they ship, and how satisfied their buyers are.

A flatlay of three items: a black cropped cardigan, a beige beanie, and a sweatshirt with a repeating zebra design.

Some secondhand finds: Everlane cardigan [review], J Crew Factory Sweatshirt. (The Quince beanie was not secondhand.) Photo from this post.

5. Avoid listings that say “mint condition.” People seem to throw this phrase around without understanding what it means. Another Poshmark fail: I bought a brooch in “mint condition.” It turned out to have scratches on its faux pearl surface. Same goes for “perfect condition.” When I see these phrases, it indicates to me that the seller is kind of lazy and isn’t really paying attention.

6. Zoom in on those photos. Had I viewed the photo of the brooch on desktop or iPad, not my phone, perhaps I would have noticed the scratches. Zoom in for the details. And don’t be afraid to ask for more photos. A conscientious seller will make the effort to provide more photos.

7. Cross reference platforms. When I’ve found something I like, I often check other platforms for the item. Sometimes the same seller will list an item on several platforms. Because shipping and selling fees differ across platforms, you might find the same item at a lower price on another platform.

8. Inspect your purchases right away. After your item arrives, there’s often a time limit to check it and report any issue. On Poshmark, you have three days to accept an item, or Poshmark will automatically close out the sale and release funds to the seller.

Once, a pair of pants I bought on Poshmark had a stain that was not disclosed. I don’t think the seller was buying duplicitous. Maybe they just missed it. Another time, a shirt I ordered from Thredup arrived with a hole. In both cases, I was able to lodge a complaint and send them back for a refund.

I hope these secondhand shopping tips have been helpful! If you have any, please share them below. And if you’re looking for tips about selling online, particularly on Poshmark, see here and here.

Photo: Henry & Co./Unsplash

Six images of the same person with dark hair wearing different outfits.

My 2023 Shopping Year in Review

I hope your new year is off to a good start. It’s that time of year when I look back at various parts of my life — including my shopping habits.

Ever since 2017, the year that I decided to shop more mindfully, I’ve successfully bought less and less. That is until 2022. You can read about why 2022 was an anomaly in that year’s recap post, but it was an unusual year.

Well, 2023 turned out to be unusual too. Due to a sudden health issue, I gained quite a bit of weight. That meant a lot of my wardrobe didn’t fit comfortably, which led to shopping.

Pictured above: In every photo I’m wearing something that I got this year. 

What I Bought in 2023

In 2023, I spent $1,262 on clothing and acquired 40 items. (My count does not include jewelry, accessories, and undergarments.) This is the largest number of items I’ve acquired in one year since 2017 (when I also added 40 items). In terms of money spent, though, this is on the lower end of my annual spending.

I should mention that out of the 40 items, six I received for free from a brand. I’m not sure I’ll keep them all as I accepted them for review purposes. I feel a little weird about including them in my count since they’re mostly clothes I didn’t pick out myself. But at the same time, they’re in my wardrobe now, so I’m counting them.

What did I acquire? Here’s a breakdown by category:

Shoes – 5
Tops – 12
Sweaters – 7
Dresses/Sets – 2
Skirts – 5
Pants – 7
Outerwear – 2

Looking at the numbers, I’m surprised by the number of tops I got. But when I review my list, I see that the majority were T-shirts or tank tops, nothing fancy. I thought that adding more T-shirts into rotation during the hot summer months would be useful. I didn’t need as many T-shirts in San Francisco, where I used to live, because I could get away with wearing a shirt many times without washing it, thanks to SF’s temperate weather. Not so in the humid, hot summers of NYC!

Plus, my ever-increasing weight meant some of my usual shirts were too tight. The pants count was also high due to weight. I added many pairs of jeans towards the end of the year to accommodate for my new size.

But while I’d like to blame the bulk of my increased shopping on the weight gain, that would be disingenuous. If I’m being totally honest, only six items were acquired specifically for the reason of weight gain. I bought a lot of things because, quite simply, I was browsing. In a challenging year, I reverted back to retail therapy and shopped to sooth myself.

Favorite Buys

A person with black hair wearing a floral print top and skirt (A-line shaped) standing outside in front of a green wall

A favorite outfit this year: Amour Vert Top // Amour Vert Skirt // Muji Shoes

Most Worn Items

These are the wardrobe staples I bought this year that I reach for again and again.

Everlane Way-High Jean – I rebought my favorite jeans in a bigger size. So it’s no surprise that I wear these all the time. (My review here.)

Gap Shaker-Stitch Cardigan – Yes, it’s fast fashion. But it’s petite sizing. Finally, a sweater where the sleeves aren’t too long!

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Ribbed Beanie – As this is an accessory, I didn’t actually include it in my count. But I just want to shout it out because I wear this so much during the fall and winter.

Most Fun Purchases

Things I totally did not need, but bought because they spoke to me.

Curator SF Gallery Dress  – The easy fit of this dress makes me feel chic despite my weight gain. This is no longer sold, but you can see it in this Instagram post, including the surprising cut-out on the back.

Amour Vert Mariah Skirt in Lily and the matching top – I love this print — and the fact that I can wear this as a set or as separates.

dr. Liza Flats in Gold – The only other metallic shoes I’ve owned have been heels. But a flat is so much more wearable. Why not add some sparkle to your every day outfit. (Though I had to apply the shoe stretcher to them. Review here.)

Biggest Splurge

AllSaints Elora Cropped Moto Jacket  – A cropped moto jacket feels like such a splurge to me since it only works in certain outfits versus a more traditional length. (Review here.)

More Numbers

One area I improved in was shopping secondhand more. A goal of mine for several years now has been for 50% of my acquisitions to be secondhand. While I didn’t meet that — my number was 35% — this was a much higher percentage than prior years. (The best I’ve done prior was 16.6% secondhand in 2020.)

In addition to buying secondhand, I also made use of my local Buy Nothing group and picked up some castoffs from friends and family, which helped keep costs down. (Because they were free!) Seven items came to me this way.

Another indicator of how mindfully I’m shopping is to evaluate how many items I’m actually keeping. In other words, are there any retail regrets? I’ve already decided not to keep two items I thrifted (one for fit issues, another because I just don’t love it as it turns out). I probably won’t keep all the jeans I got for weight gain, but for now I’m hanging on to them for fluctuations.

As to decluttering, I purged just nine items this year, three of them bags. I mostly paused on re-evaluating my wardrobe since it’s possible my weight will come back down as medications are adjusted.

Welcome Objects 2023 Wardrobe Count 
Additions: 40
Number of Additions That Are Secondhand: 14
Subtractions: 9

2024 Goals

What’s next for 2024? First, I think I’m going to chill and do a No Buy January. For the rest of the year, I hesitate to set a numeric goal when my body is still in flux. But you know what, I’m going to do it anyway because I really don’t think I should acquire another 40 items. That’s too much. I’m going to try to keep it to 20 max. And I will keep that 50% secondhand goal and see if I can do even better this year.

I’ll end on a Reel of some of my favorite outfits from the year:


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A gift wrapped in DIY giftwrap made out of brown paper. There are supplies to the side such as scissors and stamp pad.

DIY Eco-Friendly Gift Wrap & 5 Other Sustainable Gift Wrapping Ideas

If there was ever a single use item, it’s gift wrap. We buy a lot of it. It’s an industry worth billions the U.S. (I have seen figures ranging from $2 to $13 billion.) In any case, it’s a fair amount — and most of it gets thrown out after one use.

Gift wrap isn’t even recyclable in many cases. If it has glitter or shine, that means it can’t be recycled. Even if it’s not shiny, it still might be coated in plastic. So, I don’t buy gift wrap anymore. I make my own out of materials I already have lying around.

How to Make DIY Eco-Friendly Gift Wrap

Materials on a wooden surface: brown paper, stamp pad, stamps, washi tape, scissors, pen.

Stamp Pad // Gift Tag Stamp [similar] // Totoro Stamps // Washi Tape // Scissors // Pen

Materials

A paper bag, grocery bag, or packing paper
Rubber stamps
Stamp pad
Washi tape
Scissors
Pen or marker

4 Easy Steps to Making DIY Wrapping Paper

1. Cut paper to size. I’m using some packing paper that came in an online order. So it’s a bit wrinkly. But whatever. (Also, can we take a moment to appreciate these handsome Japanese-made scissors?)

A copy of the book Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus on top of brown paper.

This is an eco-friendly gift too. It’s secondhand.

2. Decorate the paper with rubber stamps. How cute are these Totoro stamps? If you don’t have rubber stamps, you can decorate with pencils or markers. If you have a child, you can put them on this task. Who is going to be mad at gift wrap decorated by a child? (Or don’t decorate at all. It’s optional.)

A close up of a stamp of totoro.

I got these stamps in Japan, but you can also find them here.

3. Secure with washi tape. Regular tape is made out of plastic. So I use washi tape, which is made out of paper and will at least biodegrade. But if you’re good at folding, you don’t need any kind of tape at all. You can just fold and tuck. I’ll refer you to Martha Stewart for how to wrap without any tape.

The back of a gift wrapped in brown paper and decorated with stamps and red and blue washi tape

The red, white, and blue washi tape lends a nice postal vibe.

4. Address your gift. I happen to have this handy To/From stamp shaped like a gift tag. But of course, a pen or marker works just fine too.

A stamp pad and stamp in the shape of a gift tag, on top of a wrapped gift.

While this particular rubber stamp from Yellow Owl Workshop is no longer available, here is a similar one.

All done! I added a little washi tape to the front for visual interest. Not that I think that the 4-year-old recipient of this present will notice. Here’s a Reel of the whole DIY gift wrap-making process.

A gift wrapped in DIY eco-friendly gift wrap made out of brown paper with a design stamped on it

5 Other Sustainable Gift Wrapping Ideas

1. All sorts of paper. Maps, newspaper, pretty magazine pages, calendars, sheet music. Even that bubble wrap alternative made out of paper. There’s all sorts of paper that can have a second life as gift wrap.

2. Tins, boxes, & jars. When I come across a nice-looking container, I save it for reuse. This can be tins from tea or cookies, a particularly nice-looking or sturdy box from a product, or even glass jars.

3. Dust bags & tote bags. I don’t know about you, but I have so many extra dust bags from shoe purchases and even buying bedsheets. Similarly, despite my best efforts, I end up with extra tote bags. Put them to use!

4. Gift bags. At least these are reusable. (And hopefully the recipient will save it for reuse and not throw it out.) But I do try to re-use something I already have first. If I’ve acquired a particularly nice shopping bag, I’ll cover up the brand logo with a design and use it as a gift bag.

5. Furoshiki or other fabric. Furoshiki is a Japanese cloth for wrapping or transporting stuff. (Marie Kondo shows us how it’s done.) Even if you don’t have a furoshiki per se, you can similarly use other fabric. I wrapped the gift below using a dish cloth. I gathered the cloth to the top, then secured it with a piece of string that previously held an Everlane price tag to a T-shirt. (After the recipient opens their gift, I’m reclaiming my dish cloth. But you can also use fabric scraps if the gift won’t be opened in your presence.)

A hand holds up a gift wrapped in a cloth with a lemon print.

Dish Cloth – $4.99 for set of 4

I don’t even participate in gifting for the holidays (except for kiddos). But when I give a present, I use one of the ideas above. Hope this helped spark some ideas. If you have other creative solutions for sustainable gift wrapping, please share in the comments.


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A view up at red leaves on a tree. The sun is shining through.

Fall 2023 Shopping Diary

Shopping is a bit weird these days since my body is in flux. I’ve been steadily gaining weight due to medication, rendering more and more of my existing wardrobe unwearable. So I needed some new things. But I hope that I won’t need to stay on this medication and can eventually shed some of this weight. Which means I don’t want to buy that much. And yet, I seem to have acquired many things in the past three months, from September through November.

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Wardrobe Additions

Everlane Way-High Jean – In my post about shopping for a changing body, I wondered if I should rebuy a pair of jeans I already own in a bigger size. I decided yes and found a pair on Poshmark. For a while, these were the only pair of pants that fit me. (My review of the Way-High Jeans here.)

Old Navy High-Waisted Jeans – A neighbor on my local Buy Nothing group kindly gifted me two pairs, similar to these. So yay, now I have more pants.

Three T-shirts & Tanks from Everlane: Air Scoop-Neck Tee (my review), Organic Cotton Box-Cut Tee, and Organic Cotton Cutaway Tank – I bought these during a Labor Day weekend sale when it was still warm. Did I need these? Honestly, no. But I wanted a few more options when it came to tees since a) I can’t fit in some of my other ones right now and b) I hate doing laundry.

Quince Washable Silk Stretch Tank – Since this tank has served me well, I decided to get another one in trusty black. (My review here.)

Quince 100% European Linen Pajama Set – I bought these fully intending to wear them as pajamas, but the pants are tighter than I’d like for sleeping. And they’re actually nice enough that you can wear them out. A whole outfit for $60!

Quince Mongolian Cashmere Fisherman Cropped Cardigan – I’ve been thinking about getting one of these oversized cocoon cardigans for years. (See last year’s fall wish list and the year before.) Initially I had my eye on the longer boyfriend cardigan, but the cropped one made more sense for petite me. So far, it’s a welcome addition to my work-from-home outfit. I’ll see how it holds up over time before writing a review, but see this Reel for an unboxing video.

Uniqlo Powder Soft Down Jacket – Dismayed to realize that even some of my outerwear is too tight. So I got this lightweight, medium warmth jacket. (My Everlane puffer (reviewed here, similar style here) thankfully still fits and serves as my colder weather jacket.)

Kate Spade Rain BootsSimilar to this, but with a lower heel. Someone in the neighborhood wears my shoe size and put out a whole box of shoes on the street. My lucky stoop day!

Black Friday Purchases

dr. Liza Flats in Gold and Sneaker Sandal in Black – OK, I am guilty of buying these because they were on sale. It’s hard for me to resist dr. Liza’s annual birthday sale. I mean, these were 70% off! They were also final sale but since I already own these in other colors, I know they’ll fit. (My review of the dr. Liza flats.)

Nisolo Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot – After trying on several Nisolo boots in store, I bought these in the all-black colorway when they went on sale for Black Friday. Again, I didn’t need these as I already own two pairs of black boots. But, um, it’s important to test them out for bloggery’s sake, right?

Since we’re talking about Black Friday, I looked back at what I bought last year (one pair of boots, one shirt, and a bunch of nail polish). Happy to report these all got good use. But realized the shirt was from Vetta, which sadly closed this year.

That’s 14 items, 4 of which (28%) are secondhand. OK, so I did not do a good job resisting shopping lately.

Welcome Objects 2023 Wardrobe Count To Date
Additions: 30
Number of Additions That Are Secondhand: 10
Subtractions: 6

Currently Coveting

Oh no, not AllSaints releasing a new motorcycle jacket after I already did my moto jacket shopping and blogged about it. The Neve features a shrunken fit and it’s hard to tell, but it might fall somewhere length wise between the cropped Elora jacket I bought and the regular length of the Dalby? I’m not sure, but I kind of want to try it to compare. Also wondering about this biker jacket from ethical brand Able after Alyssa blogged about it. It, too, has a slightly cropped length.

Do you do this too? Keep shopping for a thing after you already shopped for it? It’s that part of me that wants to get the perfect item.

Ever since thrifting a pleated skirt, I’ve wanted more. I’ve had my eye on this J. Crew pleated skirt. (Some of you may have seen my try-on photos on Instagram.) Going to be patient and see if I can thrift something similar or find it secondhand, though.

A closeup of a pair of Nisolo chelsea boots as modeled by a model in white pants.

Nisolo Boots Review: A Try-On of 3 Styles

This summer, ethical shoe brand Nisolo opened a storefront in New York City. This was welcome news to me. Sometimes you just want to go to an old fashioned brick-and-mortar store and try stuff on. Recently, I got the chance to do just that.

If you haven’t heard about Nisolo, they are a B-Corp that pays living wages, uses leather that’s been certified by the Leather Working Group, and releases detailed sustainability cards for each of their products.

White shelving displaying shoes inside a store with brick walls painted white.

The Nisolo store in the West Village.

I stopped by the store, located on Bleeker Street in the West Village, to try on boots. Here are my first impressions from a wide-ish feet perspective. (While I own some shoes in wide widths, I can often get away with wearing medium widths in styles that run wider. Most of my shoes fit the latter description.)

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Dari Boot

A hand holds up a pair of Nisolo Dari boots in white.

Dari Boot – $250 ($149-$175 on sale for Black Friday)

I was immediately drawn to the elegant, minimalist look of this boot. I love the line that makes its way across the boot. And I’m especially fond of this bone white color.

Details: 2.5″ heel, water-resistant vegetable tanned leather upper, cushioned insole, rubber heel caps, back zipper. Available in five colors.

Sizing: Runs small. Nisolo recommends ordering a half size up. My regular size of 6.5 indeed felt too tight width wise. However, going up a half size to 7 didn’t feel right to me either. The length was a bit long for me, which meant that my heel slipped. I guess I have skinny ankles.

A view of white boots being tried on from above, and also reflected in a mirror

Dari Boot – $250 ($149-$175 on sale)

Comfort: Of the three boots I tried, this was the least comfortable. Though the description says these have cushioned insoles, these also felt the least cushioned to me. Admittedly the 2.5″ heel height was too much for me. I can no longer do anything over 2″ because I have sesamoiditis (an inflammation of the sesamoid bones in the ball of the foot). That means putting pressure on the balls of my feet is a big no-no. And I definitely felt pressure on the balls of my feet wearing these.

The leather is a bit stiff and the front shaft of the boot kept hitting my shins as I walked around. This seemed like it could be a problem. Maybe this would ease up over time as you broke them in?

Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot

Stock photo of a pair of auburn chelsea ankle boots.

Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot – $228 ($114 on sale). Using a product photo from Nisolo because mine turned out fuzzy. Oops.

The Eva is a chelsea-style boot with a low heel. I used to shun chelsea boots because I’m not a fan of how the elastic panel looks. But, the Eva has a tasteful V-shaped panel instead of the typical U-shaped one.

Details: Water-resistant leather upper, 5-layer memory foam insole, pull tabs. The website doesn’t list the heel height and I didn’t measure it, but I’m guessing it’s about 1.25″. Available in six colors including two in suede. My favorites are the Auburn and black with black sole.

Sizing: Nisolo says true to size. Many reviews on the website say to size up. I tried on both my usual 6.5 and a half size up. The 7 felt comfortable width wise, but once again, I worried about it being too roomy in the heel. Though the 6.5 felt snug width wise, I think they’d be OK after the leather stretches with some wear. The pointy-ish almond toe didn’t seem too tight in the toe box. (Though sometimes it’s not apparent that it’s too tight for a pinky toe until after some wear, so it’s hard to say.) But out of the three pairs I tried, these were the most wide feet friendly.

A view of auburn boots being tried on from above, and also reflected in a mirror

Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot – $228 ($114 on sale)

Comfort: I was pleasantly surprised by how cushiony the insole was! The combination of the 5-layer insole with the toothy rubber sole (and no doubt the lower height) made it noticeably more comfortable than the Dari. While there wasn’t arch support per se, there’s extra cushioning in the arch area. These were the most comfy boots that I tried on during my visit.

Mia Everyday Ankle Bootie

A pair of low profile Nisolo Mia ankle boots on display

Mia Everyday Ankle Bootie – $228 ($114 on sale)

The Mia is a low-profile ankle boot that can be worn without socks. These are a chic option if you’re looking for a boot that easily slips on.

Details: 2″ heel, water-resistant leather upper, 5-layer memory foam insole, rubber sole savers.

Sizing: Nisolo says true to size. I think this is probably true if you’re a true medium width. For me and my wide-ish feet, these felt tighter to me width wise than the Eva. The toe box felt snugger, too.

A view of white boots being tried on from above, and also reflected in a mirror

Mia Everyday Ankle Bootie – $228 ($114 on sale)

Comfort: For some reason even though this has a cushioned 5-layer memory foam insole just like the Eva, this insole felt not quite as cushiony to me. I think these just didn’t fit the shape of my finicky feet as well. I’m very picky when it comes to comfort (especially so after my foot injury) but I think for most people these would be comfortable.

A Side Note: Some Shopping Tips

After I came home, I saw on the website that there’s another boot, the Marisa Inside Zip Boot, that looks totally up my alley. It’s a minimalist boot with a 2″ tapered heel and inside zippers. I didn’t remember seeing these in the store. But after reviewing my photos, it appears they were there. I just didn’t see them because they were on the top shelf and I am short!

So lessons learned: peruse the website before visiting a brick-and-mortar store to familiarize yourself with the offerings and pricing. (I’ve noticed that sometimes storefronts are not so good at labeling what is on sale, Nisolo included, which is baffling to me.) And fellow shorties, don’t forget to look up.

A person with dark hair wearing a puffy white coat and white boots taking a selfie in a mirror

Trying on the Dari, which didn’t work for me. But it looks so cute with this coat! The Marisa boots that I didn’t try on are on the right upper shelf.

Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot Update

2/23/24 – I decided to buy the Eva Everday Chelsea Boots in all black. Here’s my report after three months of wear.

I ordered my regular size, 6.5. At first they felt snug, but after wearing them around at home with thick socks for one day, they stretched. That one day of break-in time was all that I needed. They fit great, even for my wide-ish feet.

The ample cushioning of the footbed makes for comfortable wear. Overall, I can wear these out all day with no issues — though they’d be even more comfortable if they had arch support.

One odd thing that happened is that the boots turned a light brown color right at the front tips. This happened on both boots on the rubber sole. You can see it in the photo below, though the discoloration is even more apparent in person.

A hand holds up a pair of black Nisolo chelsea ankle boots

Eva Everyday Chelsea Boot – $228 ($99 on sale as of 2/23/24, plus take an extra 20% off with EXTRA20, which brings it to $79.20)

At first I thought I must have gotten some dust or some other debris on them, but washing the area did nothing to reduce the discoloration. I’m known to scuff up the front of my shoes, so I guess this is just what happens when it gets scuffed? I’m thinking of just running a black sharpie over those areas.

The boots are water resistant as advertised. I find that I wear them often, so they’ve definitely turned out to be a good buy for me. And now, they’re an even better buy as they’re part of an end of season sale. I heartily recommend them.

UPDATE 5/20/25 – I’ve worn these boots for two fall/winter seasons now. While getting ready to store them recently, I noticed that on one boot the outsole is separating from the rest of the boot at the front. I took them to a cobbler to glue the outsole back on, as well as replace the heels. I kind of expected them to last a bit longer? But then again, maybe my expectations are off. NYC weather is certainly harsher than San Francisco weather, where I used to live, and these are the boots I reach for the most in the fall.

everlane cashmere cardigan in burgundy

Everlane Review: Cashmere Cardigan

When Everlane came out with their Cashmere Cardigan last fall, I kept eyeing it. I went to the store to try it on — more than once. I wrote a try-on review. As someone petite, the cropped length of this sweater called to me.

Priced at $200 at the time, though, it was not comfortable for my budget. But I kept thinking about it. (It’s even pricier now at $228, though you can snag it during a sale. Currently it’s part of a 30% off sale on sweaters, dresses, and outerwear, which brings it to $160.)

Two images of models wearing the Everlane cashmere cardigan, which is cropped. An Asian model with long hair wears a black cardigan open. A black model with short hair wears a burgundy cardigan buttoned up.

Cashmere Cardigan in Black or Brandy – $228 original price ($160 on sale). Left: a 5′ 7″ model in XS, Right: a 5′ 10″ model in S.

In January, I found a black one on Poshmark, new with tags too. So I snagged it. Here’s my review after owning it for 10 months. Though there’s many things I like about it, there’s a problem you should know about. Read on.


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I have sensitive skin, but this sweater doesn’t bother me.

Fabric: 94% recycled cashmere. The rest is recycled wool. (There’s a bit of nylon (5%) and elastane (1%) in the trimming.) When this cardigan was first released, Everlane called it the ReCashmere Cardigan to emphasize its recycled content. Compared to the first iteration of Everlane’s ReCashmere fabric released in 2019, this has much higher cashmere content and is softer.

Itch Factor: I have sensitive skin, but this sweater doesn’t bother me.

Where It’s Made: The yarn is sourced and spun in Prato, Italy. The sweater is manufactured in this 700-person factory in Dongguan, China.

Fit: Relaxed. The cut of this sweater is wide and boxy. I wear a S in most brands. Everlane generally runs big, so I mostly wear an XS in this brand. The XS drapes loosely.

I, a person with black hair, am taking a selfie in a mirror in an Everlane store, wearing a yellow boxy cardigan.

Cashmere Cardigan in XS on 5′ 4″ me. Photo is from this post with my first review of this cardigan.

I ended up sizing down to XXS for a closer fit, which measures about 18″ from pit to pit. (I would share a photo of me posing like above in the XXS for comparison except that I’ve gained a bunch of weight recently and it fits too snugly at the moment.) But either size works; the smaller size has a more regular fit while the larger size gives that slouchy look.

Petite Friendly?: Yes! I love the cropped length (20″ for the XXS), which works well for 5′ 4″ me. It hits around the top of my high-rise jeans. Sleeves run a bit long, but not annoyingly so. I can also push up the sleeves and they stay put.

Details & Styling: Though the V-neck is on the deep side, it’s not too deep that you can’t button it up and wear it on its own like the model near the top of this post. I’ve even worn it backwards with the V on the back. But mostly, I wear it open as a layer over shirts.

How It Wore: While there’s some pilling around the armpits, it doesn’t pill that much. But it does shed. Wearing it over a white button down shirt required taking a lint roller to that shirt afterwards as little black yarns had taken up residence all over it. So I wouldn’t wear a white shirt with it again.

And that’s when I saw a hole in the shoulder.

I wore this cardigan happily for six months. Then I washed it. According to care instructions, you can handwash or dry clean. I handwashed, being careful to do the roll-sweater-in-a-towel-and-gently-squeeze thing before laying flat to dry. After it dried, I was getting ready to put it into storage for the summer. And that’s when I saw a hole in the shoulder. Uggghhhh.

I don’t know if I damaged it or received a flawed item or what. But comparing the construction of this Cashmere Cardigan to Everlane’s ReCashmere Varsity Cardigan made a few years prior (no longer available, reviewed here), the shoulder seam does seem thinner or more loosely woven on the Cashmere Cardigan.

Closeup of the interior of a black Everlane sweater showing a small hole.

The shoulder seam of the Cashmere Cardigan from the inside.

A hand holding the shoulder area of a black sweater, showing a small hole

The hole that developed.

I wrote to Everlane to ask about yarn. Not that long ago if you bought a sweater, it came with extra yarn in case you had to repair it. It wasn’t fancy companies doing this either, just your regular mall brands like Banana Republic. (In another sign that clothes are more disposable these days, few retailers seem to do this nowadays.)

But Everlane said they couldn’t provide yarn. The customer service rep did seem open to replacing my cardigan at first. But because I didn’t buy it directly from them, in the end they said there wasn’t anything they could do.

What to do? I took it to my local dry cleaner/tailor. At least the hole was small. They confidently declared they could stitch it closed. Looking at the area now, I can see where they made the repair. But if you’re not looking for a flaw, you probably wouldn’t notice it.

A closeup of a sewn hole on a black Everlane cardigan

Back from the tailor. Can you spot the repair?

BTW, the owner of the dry cleaner told me that their tailor is an elderly gentleman and that fewer people are doing this kind of work. I wonder if this is because there’s less demand these days. (I’ll always need to visit a tailor since I’m petite and need things hemmed or taken in.) Please support your local tailor!

Final Thoughts: Needless to say, I’m disappointed. I love the cut of this cardigan, the warmth, and the fact that it’s made out of recycled materials, which means a lower environmental impact. But a sweater should last more than six months before developing a hole! I’ve never had problems with my other Everlane sweaters. (I own six others, three of which are made of the earlier ReCashmere fabric with higher wool content.) Is this a sign that Everlane’s quality, at least when it comes to cashmere, has gone down?


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